“You need Jesus”

Today, in the heat of a dispute, a lady started to walk away and over her shoulder said, “You have a bad attitude and you need Jesus.” I responded with, “That was very polite, thank you.”

The entire thing was because she was carrying around a dog within the hotel, and seeing as it was a pet free property, and not seeing any evidence of it being a service animal, I simply asked her if it was in fact her pet. She responded, yes. I could easily rattle on multiple reasons why I didn’t believe this to be a service dog, but all that aside I’m not allowed to ask for proof. Later, her husband came up in a tizzy upset that there was a problem. After discussing that there wasn’t actually any problems, and that service dogs are more then welcome, she came over and said her line about Jesus.

I don’t care what anyone has done.If they cuss you out, or are just plain rude, if you truly think they need Jesus, just pray for them! Don’t even tell them that you are. Rudely stating that someone needs Jesus is just trying  to make yourself feel and sound like the better person. You aren’t. Neither was I, I should have responded with, I agree. Or something that notes the fact that everyone always needs Jesus. Pointing it out is just rude.

Will I pray for that family, of course, will I be a bit sour about it? Well, maybe for a couple hours. But I am human. We are not all perfect. So of course I need Jesus. I’m proud to admit that there are many things that I need him for. But I would never use religion as a focal point of an argument just to verify my beliefs. I know that I have a relationship with God, could it be stronger, yes. Could everyone’s? Yes.


So on a side note: If you, or anyone you know, needs prayers. Let me know. I would be more than happy to add you to my list!


Why “White Christmas” shouldn’t be updated

I will refer to this video, even though the quality isn’t the best. If I find a better one I’ll update it.

When one reads the lyrics to the song, “White Christmas”, he/she might presume that it is a song that’s reminiscent of child-like days of blissful happiness. Thinking about the happiness they felt a long time ago. That might have been true with the original production that came out before the movie White Christmas came out. But when the movie did come out it had this scene.

The men, mostly young, who were away from their families to fight for their freedom, our freedom. It added a brand new light on the beautiful song.

When someone like Bing Crosby is singing along with a toy-like box, you must understand that the irony was on purpose. Bringing back memories of the innocent sounds of a music box, and the enticing visual to any and all people listening.

Then, at :12, when Bing starts to sing. He rich baritone voice filling the bomb infused air seems to bring everyone down to whispers. I can’t help but to hold me breath for the first line, for fear of disturbing the quiet. Scenically, the camera stays pulled back while the first line is sang. But at :22 the camera pans in to show detail on Bing. I never though much of this, but if it started with a close up, you wouldn’t have been able to see the hand-made backdrop that is haphazardly hung in the background so that the men watching could pretend to be on a mountain top with the snow, over looking a church, with Bing. Forgetting the harsh reality of where they really were.

At :35 it shows their General. And right when Bing sings, “And children listen…” The general looks around at his men. I can only imagine what was going through his mind. Children, these men are thinking back to the Christmas’ when they were children, but they still are children. They’re so young, having to deal with things most adult men don’t have to in a life time. At :41 it shows the group of men, and one rests his head on the barrel of his gun, as if it’s a pillow. Once again, this wasn’t an accident. This man could have lowered the gun, and rested his elbow on his knee and his chin in his hand.

But he couldn’t get that luxury, he knows where he is. and that at any minute he could need that gun to save himself and others. Either he has grown so accustomed to having it in such close proximity, which is a sadder thought still, or even though he’d like to forget where he is, he can’t.

At :46 the music slightly pauses and it must be wound up again. I don’t think there is a great deal of significance here, other than to remind the listener that this wasn’t a concert. But men trying to put on a show that had never done so before. I love the step forward that Bing does though. Right after Bing sings about the Christmas cards, he pauses and looks a bit. there must be so many letters that these guys wrote to people that they missed. Parent’s, brothers, sisters, friends, girlfriends, wife’s. I wonder how many actually got delivered, or even sent.

I have heard people re-do this song in hopes of re-popularizing the already popular hit. Or maybe they want to make money off the fame of the song. but there are some songs you shouldn’t mess with. Bing Crosby is one of those. His voice aside, what this song came to mean in this movie is heartbreaking. and if you aren’t going to honor the melancholy tones and  meanings this song hold, then you need to sing Mariah Carey.


I know this song came out before this movie, and was originally in “The Holiday Inn”, but this movie is where I think the meaning of the song became so powerful.

Midnight: Analysis

This episode tends to split the audience. Many love it, many hate it. I personally adore this episode. My boyfriend hardly remembers it. I have put together reasons why I believe it to be such a good episode. If  you have anything to add, or argue, please feel free!

  1. It’s kind of nice to see The Doctor doing something on his own. I love Donna and companions in general. However, sometimes it’s nice to see him function without someone at his side 24/7.
  2. Different personalities shoved into one show… And it worked. Unlike Love and Monster… I’m so sorry I even mentioned it. Unlike, that one, The multiple personalities meshed really well and fit into the plot. There isn’t a single one where I thought, meh… wish they didn’t include that one.

  3. Another fandom character was there! The fact that Merlin showed up on set yet didn’t steal focus from the plot is wonderful. most shows when someone that recognizable is a guest, they make some really awkward scenes to feature said guest.

  4. It forced us all to use our imaginations. What was/is it? Could there really be something out there that is living somewhere that we think is unlivable?

  5. We got this amazing gif of Colin!

  6. Um… Hello. Rose!

  7. We got to see David do an amazing performance. Not being able to control any part of your body, trying desperately to explain to everyone what they are doing is wrong. Then when it’s all over, and he is safe, he doesn’t hop up like he normally does. Instead he stays down and simply says, “It’s gone.”

    Eventually he gets up, and you can tell in his eyes that he is something that we have never seen before this point. He is disappointed. He has been disappointed in people, of course, but this time it was different. He was disappointed in humans.
    This look was given when one of the people said that she knew that it wasn’t him. Pure disappointment.

I stand by this episode. I think that it is absolutely wonderful.

Who am I?

I’m the person you don’t see walk by. I’m the one people have to get you to describe because they can’t remember my name. I’m the one at my high school that everyone forgets one year later. I’m the girl who looks vaguely familiar, but you can’t put your finger on it. I shared the stage many times with you years ago, yet I’m a stranger to you now. I’m the friend from college that you just don’t seem to know much about now. I’m your friend from high school that you grew away from. I’m the one in the picture with you, but you can’t remember why.

I’m that person you see every now and then on Facebook, but you can’t remember why we became friends. I’m the one who comes to where you work every day, but you don’t know my name. I’m the cashier that you ignore because you had a phone call. I’m the fast food worker who already knew your order because you are a regular, but you still act like it’s your first time there. I’m the check-in girl at the hotel who already knows who you are, what level on the rewards program you are, and what company you work for, yet you don’t even look me in the eye.

I’m the coworker that you don’t know much about. I’m the one who always smiles and asks how you are. I am the one who always listens. I am that friend who is always there for you even when you haven’t contacted in months. I’m the sister that you confide in, but I never reciprocate. I’m the daughter that calls every day, but gets rushed off the phone. I’m that one cashier who spoke with you about dogs for ten minutes that you forgot about by the time you got home. I’m the worker that you told about your rough day and gave you a free tub of ice cream, but it wasn’t a flavor you preferred.

I’m the roommate you don’t even know is home. I’m the sister that is always on your side. I’m the idiot wearing long sleeves in the heat of summer. I’m the girl smiling at you as you walk by. I’m the girlfriend that you have to put up with. I’m the one on Pinterest looking up Doctor Who and Sherlock, apologizing for annoying people with them. I’m the one who is always laughing. I’m the worker you can depend on. I’m the one going through the drive through with the cat in my lap that you laugh at. I’m the friend that you talk to all the time, yet you know nothing about me.

I’m some one who cares more about the happiness of others before the happiness of myself. I am someone who would bend over backwards to do something for you if you asked me to. I am someone who can make you laugh when you’re having a bad day. I will have your back and encourage you to stay strong, even when I’m the one who cries myself to sleep each night.

I am there for all these people because I know what it’s like to have no one. So before you judge me for not having the same experiences you might have had in college, high school, or even in general, how about you just stop and think. Think about all those people that you have forgotten about, taken for granted, and abused for so many years. Roll all those people into one person. Put yourself into his/her shoes. Now look at me and judge me. You don’t know where anyone has been, you don’t know what anyone else has had to live through, so you don’t have a right to judge anyone.

It doesn’t matter what you look like, what you’re wearing, what color you are, or even what gender you are. It matters how you treat others.

I’m Alive: Next to Normal

Next to Normal is a tense and chilling musical. That’s right, a creepy musical. And it is amazing. This is by far my favorite show that I have ever seen or heard of. I’ll give a quick overview of what the show is about, then go into the lyrics of the song I’m Alive.

So the entire show consists of 6 people. Mother, father, son, daughter, boyfriend, psycho-pharmacologist are those 6! But there is a catch, the son actually died when he was a baby.


The mother never got over him, so in her mind he kept growing, kept again. So he is present throughout the show as a figment of her imagination… Or is he?


This is Aaron Tveit… The amazing, sexy, wonderful man that is the son. You might recognize him from Les Miserables, Enjolras, or from Graceland.. Where he is one of the leads! Well, this guy can also sing… Like a flippen angel. And in this role he is absolutely breath-takingly creepy.

He plays the son that is constantly trying to convince his mother that he isn’t just a figment of her imagination, but that he is really alive. Trying to convince her that he is alive isn’t the only thing that he is trying to convince to to do though, he also wants her to join him. But that is a whole other song! So throughout the show you get to see her struggle between her husband who lovingly stays by her side, and her son that has aged into a handsome man.


All the son wants is for her to actually grieve him. Not pretend he was never alive, but really grieve him. For his dad, he wants him to acknowledge him. But what makes this show absolutely amazing is the acting. The way the characters pour themselves into the parts is gut wrenching at times.


I cannot tell you enough about how amazing this show is. If you like characters with depth this is the show for you. I wont go into detail about how much the sister struggles with dealing with a mentally ill mother, but I will tell you that it is amazing. I think I have described enough to go into the analysis of the song. Keep in mind that he is jumping all over the amazingly well built stage!


“I am what you want me to be,
And I’m your worst fear”
This line is incredibly accurate. There are a couple ways, based on staging, that you can interpret this. I’m going to try and base everything on what the lyricist was thinking when this song was written. Basing it more upon the thought process of the character. Directors will have the actors doing different things. THAT being said here are the two ways. 1) The son is singing the first part of the song to his mother, and the second part to his father. This is based on the mother’s constant struggle between believing her husband that her son isn’t really there, and believing that her son really is there. 2) The first part is fulfilling the hope that their son hadn’t really died. It was all a nightmare, he isn’t gone, he’s okay. That’s what they want. The second part of the lyric would be the reality of why the son is there. He wants them all to join him. He isn’t there to provide peaceful thoughts, he wants to stir up trouble and get them to join him on the other side. This would all depend on the staging done by the director. If he directs the son to indicate to each parent on the specific line, then the first interpretation is being used. However, if that is not the case, and he is singing to one than the second one is being used.

“You’ll find it in me.
Come closer…
Come closer…”
He is singing to his mother throughout this song. She is in a therapy session as he is singing. So I think that this line is being used to try and convince her further that she needed to leave her therapist and go to him.

“I am more than memory”
A simple memory, such as last week when you “cheated” on your diet isn’t something that makes you loose sleep. A traumatic event, such as loosing someone close to you is something so much more. So when he says that he is more than a memory, he’s referring to being more tangible than a fleeting thought. 

“I am what might be,”
Clearly, he is embodying the person that he could have been if he hadn’t died. the life they could have had, if he were there.

“I am mystery.”
Since she isn’t sure, within her mind, if he is there or not. Even if he is, why is he there? Why is he doing this? It’s all a mystery.

“You know me
So show me.”

With this line, once again, he is singing to his mother while she is in a therapy session. I feel like he is trying to remind her, “You know me” remember? “So show me” So prove it. He is trying to get her to choose him.

“When I appear it’s
Not so clear if
I’m a simple spirit
Or I’m flesh and blood…”
When the son isn’t around, it might be easy for her to believe that he really isn’t there. It really is in her head. That’s why he points out the fact that it is when he appears it’s hard to tell whether or not he is there.

“But I’m alive,
I’m alive,
I am so alive,”
Leading off the previous line, he is telling her that he isn’t that simple spirit every says he is he really is alive.

“And I feed on the fear
That’s behind your eyes.”
May I just start with how much I love this line? It’s hard to know exactly what was meant by this line. Is it merely a metaphor? He loves the fear that radiates from the family that he compares it to something he can’t live without: food? Or is it literal? The more they fear him, the stronger he gets? I’m going to go with the second one because of the next line.

“And I need you
To need me”
And this is why I think that it is an actually craving. He needs to be wanted. If not, he’d fade away. So the more she believes he is there the stronger he will get.

“It’s no surprise
I’m alive…
So alive…
I’m alive.”
I’ve thought about his line for hours. I know that sounds strange, but why does he say this particularly? Rhyme? No, they could have had him say “I tell no lies” or something like that. But I think that I finally figure it out. If he feeds on the fear, than it’s no surprise that he is alive. Going along with the whole idea that he gets stronger the more people fear/accept him, than he is saying that it really is not a surprise that he is “alive”. 

“I am flame and I am fire,
I am destruction,
Decay and desire”
All of these, including desire, could be interpreting dark things. Such as sins, desire – lust. I like how the writers used flame and fire. A flame isn’t necessarily dangerous. But a fire is. the flame is the beautiful, yet dangerous part of the fire. Sort of like the thorn on a rose. To combine destruction and decay with desire was probably convenient for the alliteration. However, destruction and decay are words that could relate to other things. Destruction, the ruining of the mind and body. Decay – withering away in both the mind and body. Desire- the powerful feeling of need and want for something. Could he be saying that what she is craving of him is actually what will bring her mind to completely wiped?

“I’ll hurt you…
I’ll heal you…”
As talked about at the beginning of this song, there are two ways to look at this based on staging. It could be that the first part of the line could be directed towards the father or therapist, and the second part to the mother. If not directed like that, it could just be the son saying that he will hurt you, but then softens to reassure that he would also heal. It could also stand to mean that in healing you, he is actually hurting you.

“I’m your wish,
Your dream come true,”
If you have ever lost someone close to you, you know what he is saying. The mother completely lost her mind when she lost her son. All she wants is for him to be back, so he is. 

“And I am your darkest
Nightmare too”
Considering how much he want her to join him, there is no denying the accuracy of this line.

“I’ve shown you…
I own you.”

This is another one that is a little confusing unless you know the show well. The concept of him owning his mother is very strange and could be difficult to wrap your head around. Until you realize the whole joining thing. Or even when he tell her that he would be there, not her husband. Then when they fight, the son is always there. and even when she leaves for a while, he knows that she will be back. This picture above is from the song “There’s a World” which is where is finally has her attempt to join him. Such an wonderful song when performed correctly.

“And though you made me,
You can’t change me”
He is their son, but he is so much more than that now. He might have been created by them in life, but in death something darker seems to have control over their “son”. I feel like  he is sort of rubbing it in her face. You might have been able to control me, if you didn’t let me die. 

“I’m the perfect stranger
Who knows you too well.”
This tags along with the previous line. She might think of him as her son, but he is really something darker. A complete stranger who bares the face of her baby boy. Something that no mother would be able to ignore.

And I’m alive,
I’m alive,
I am so alive,
“And I’ll tell you the truth
If you let me try.”
She has been told countless times that he isn’t there. A figment of her imagination that confuses her. So I feel like at this part he is trying to tease her to draw her closer. As if there were a deeper reality that others can’t sense and he was finally going to let her in on the secret.

“You’re alive,
I’m alive,”
Trying to compare himself to his mother, if you’re alive I must be alive too, right?

“And I’ll show why
I’m alive…
So alive…”
Again with the same feeling that he is teasing her with some piece of the puzzle that she’s been looking for for years.

“I’m alive
I’m right behind you.”
For this line it is the staging. For the production I saw, as well as the image above, he was coaxing his sister. He pushed their mothers purse out so that she would feel inclined to go through it and take her medication. He just wants to have a big family reunion when they all join him, huh?

“You say forget,
But I remind you.”
The whole notion that he doesn’t want to be forgotten is hidden throughout the show. The docs try to give her so many meds she doesn’t even know why she needs them anymore. Later in this song he mentions, until you grieve me, as in until you remember. So every time she moves on a little bit past, she isn’t actually grieving. She’s either forgetting about it, or pretending it never happened. So he is there to remind her every time she thinks she can take a shortcut through the grief.

“You can try to hide,
You know that I will find you.”
 He thinks of himself as a God, and with enough conviction people will see him as one too. She has never been able to escape him, so when he says this he is reiterating to her that she will never be cleansed from him.

“‘Cause if you won’t grieve me
You won’t leave me behind…”
And here is that line I was talking about previously. She has never just dealt with what happened. The event was so traumatic that her brain thought is would be easier to forget, or pretend, that is ever happened. So until she confronts what happened, he isn’t going anywhere.

“Ah, ah, ah,
Whoa, oh, oh,
Whoa, oh, oh…
No, no, no
I’m alive,
I’m alive,
I am so alive,”

“If you climb on my back,
Then we both can fly.”
Once more I feel like he is trying to get her to join him. Come with me and I’ll make you feel wonderful. 

“If you try to deny me
I’ll never die”
Until she confronts what happened, he ain’t going anywhere!

I’m alive…
So alive…
I’m alive…
Yeah, yeah…
I’m alive…
I’m alive…
I’m alive…
I’m alive!

Next to Normal Photo 9


And this is how the song ends. The mother on the bottom floor reaching up to the son her is on the top floor who is reaching down. Father and daughter, respectfully, on the second floor facing opposite directions. Finally the therapist on the same level as the mother, simply looking at her. I think the mother and son reaching thing is easily explained. But something about the father and daughter sat strangely with me. why have them face different ways? Why have them on the second level? Yes, it probably was because it was pretty. But it would also stand to reason that they were standing in the was of the son and mother being together. As for them facing different directions, could show disinterest. They aren’t facing each other, which would be interpreted as something familiar to a family. They are facing opposite, which stands to reason that they have opposing standpoints.


Alibis–Marianas Trench

Marianas Trench is a wonderful Punk-Pop group from Canada. They are actually on tour currently in the states though. It consists of four men who have performed together now for years. I started becoming slightly obsessed with them about three years ago when my family looked up their music videos. trench-smh-102811

Although they have a punk-themed look, their videos tend to be upbeat. Some songs definitely have a stronger theme to them. Song writer and lead singer, Josh Ramsay, often puts his life into his songs.


Battling anorexia and a heroine addiction at a young age gave him the soul needed for writing such intense lyrics. One of my favorites is Alibis. This was on their album titled Fix Me. This album hosts many of their rougher tunes that are deeply missed. Songs like this one cry out to me and really make me reflect on things that I’m going through or things from my past.

As always, this is simply my assumption, and what I personally take from the song. This does not necessarily reflect what the band means by their words.

“From the scrapes and bruises”

Knowing that Josh dealt with Anorexia means that he also probably had to deal with bulimia as well. Often, a side effect of bulimia means you get to walk around looking like you punched something recently. Unless someone uses alternative measures to induce their gag reflex, most people use their hands. More often than not your knuckles scrape your teeth. When done multiple times a day, this means that you will receive injuries that look like scrapes.

This is very accurate also if you self-harm. Some people with give themselves bruises instead and then say they fell. Easier to explain than straight lines.

To the familiar abuses”
To me, the word familiar is being used here because people hear about narcotic addictions more often than they do eating disorders. This going strongly for men. So here he is saying that in addition the the abuse he endures from the eating disorder, he also has what other people might call normal abuses as well. In his case, heroine.


It could also mean something that hasn’t been done in a while. It could also be interpreted that it was familiar because it had been done in the past. So using the self-harming idea again. If someone had stopped for a few months or years, then started once more, it would be the familiar abuse.

“I’ll kick and scream but it never changes anything”




I’ve been told, and have seen it portrayed, that when giving up an addiction to something as strong as heroine, your body completely rejects the lack of the drug. So major fits of aggression can, and do, occur. Then, with the last part of that line, “but it never changes anything” states that no matter how much he hates it, it never changes. So he can go on and on and nothing is going to change the state that he is in.

“I could spill my guts out
Wearing my best little girl pout”
I view this in three ways.
1) Literally spilling guts as in bulimia.
2) Spilling guts/blood as in self harm
3) Spilling guts as in telling someone about what they are going through.
However taking into account the next line, it is probably one of the first two.

“And I almost missed it”
When someone reflects on the past, sometimes they can’t believe that they missed that feeling. With this line, I almost feel like he is amazed by the thought. I can’t believe I almost missed it.

“But nobody said that this was gonna be easy”
Giving up any addiction is beyond difficult. When one is going to start to give something up they are bombarded with negative thoughts. People are all too willing to say that you are strong enough, but they never talk about how hard it is.

“This is not the man I hoped to be”
I don’t think that any young person dreams to be an adult dealing with an addiction. So this line seems to reflect on that thought.

“And I’m just trying to stop the bleeding”
This line, again, I take a couple ways. One way that it could be interpreted is stopping the bleeding from self-harm/bulimia. But there is also another viewpoint. One that mimics a similar thought, but not necessarily meaning that it has happened. This could just be a way of saying that he is simply trying to stay alive.

“I don’t know how to word it
I just started to deserve it”
Often times, when someone self-harms or partakes in eating disorders, they feel like they deserve to feel the way they do. I’m annoying to everyone I meet, I should punish myself. I disgust everyone by my size, I should starve myself. things like that. It might not start off that way, but it quickly turns into that.

“And all my, all my faces are alibis”
This is by far one of my favorite lines from Marianas Trench. I think most people can relate to this line in some way. This line is talking about how others people view him. If everyone sees a happy smiling face, how would they ever believe that I am depressed? If they have never seen me upset, how would they believe me when I tell them I need help? So when he says “faces” he is talking about his persona. When he says alibis, he is meaning his defense. Even if someone saw the scars, or saw the tell tale signs of eating disorders, “but he/she is always so happy! He/She could would never do that.”
“And me, I’m half the man I wanted to be”
You could take this literal, half the man because of the weight loss, or you could take it a bit more abstract. You know when some one say, “If you were half the man your father was…”? So he could just be saying that he isn’t good enough.

“Most times it all comes out wrong
I don’t know the words but I’ll hum along”
This line I take a little differently. I think that this is going along with the alibi theme. Pretending to be okay, when you really aren’t. I don’t know how to be normal, but I pretend to anyway. 

“There’s nothing familiar here anymore
To anyone or anything left to feel alive”
When dealing with depression, of any form, it is easy to think that you are completely alone. In feeling this way, you tend to push away people close to you. When this is done, you think that they left because of you and they were never really there. Then you start wondering who they were, did you ever really know them at all?

“And I still taste that sickness”
I think this one is pretty self explanatory… However there again there are two ways of looking at this. 1) literal sickness. 2) Plain disgust. Like when you are so upset at something you’re sick about it. So this could be someone reflecting on something unpleasant and still feeling upset about it. 

“And it makes me crazy without it at best”
This line is talking about at best he feels crazy without that sickness, which is rather upsetting when you think about it. This means there are times when he feels worse than just “crazy” at the loss of the thing he is trying so desperately to get rid of. 

“But I’m in the same place I used to be”
Still an addict. Still depressed…

“But I’m trying harder not to be”
Once an addict always an addict, but there are ways of working to be better. That is what this line is for.

This is not the man I hoped to be
And I’m just trying to stop the bleeding
I don’t know how to word it
I just started to deserve it
And all my, all my faces are alibis
And me, I’m half the man I wanted to be

So what am I? What am I? So what am I?
If you are trying to get better, so as to not be an addict, but you are still struggling–what are you? Feeling lost about who/what you are when you loose something that was such a big part of who you identified as is a very confusing thing.

And all my, all my faces are alibis
This is not the man I hoped to be
And I’m just trying to stop the bleeding

“I don’t know how the words go
I just started not to say no”
Just slightly different from the previous line, this one is talking about relapsing. At least that is my interpretation. Constantly saying no to something, then finally giving in. Not necessarily relapse, but in general.

“Don’t want it, don’t get it
I know you won’t regret it”
This line is kind of an advisory line. He is saying that he doesn’t want what he is going through, then telling others not to “get it” as in addiction.
“Don’t surface, don’t surface
And I feel so damned worthless”
1) If I do not get over this I will feel completely worthless
2) Don’t go outside, don’t let others see you because you feel so worthless.

“Another day is gone and all my faces are alibis”
Once again, I’m pretending to be something I’m not.

All my faces are alibis

And me, I’m half the man I wanted to be


I’ve said it throughout this piece that this is just my interpretation of the song. Often times I refer to him/he I do not necessarily mean Josh throughout. It is just the singer, so I refer to the voice. I’m not trying to say that this is how he feels/felt. I’m just interpreting the lyrics from my viewpoint.

This song is hauntingly beautiful with it’s comparisons and deep understanding of the struggles caused by addiction.

Plus, who can’t love a song by this sexy man??

Inside Out

First of all. SPOILERS. If you don’t like it, don’t read it. This movie is a lot deeper than you think. I went in thinking that it was going to be such a fun and happy movie, and it is! But, man, if you really think about it it brings a much deeper level of thought that kind of hits you by surprise. In a nutshell the story follows the emotions that are inside this little girl, Riley.


The emotions are coordinated to a color. That obviously match. Joy is clearly the one in control.


What is interesting, is when each emotion touches the control desk, they are taking over how Riley does certain things. So if Anger has you go upstairs, she stomps up. If Disgust has her say something, Riley will say it as if she was… well, disgusted. Then, each memory that is created reflects the emotion that was in control. So if it is a memory of something that was scary, than the orb would be purple.

The next thing that happens is a little confusing. If you think back, to certain memories, there are a couple that really stand out and make them who you are. Memories of your family, friends, hobbies, things like that. Each time you have a memory like that they become extra special. They go turn into “Core Memories”. Then, in true animation style, those create little islands.


These are the islands of personalities. These are what makes Riley, Riley. There is, in order, Honesty Island, Friendship Island, Hockey Island, and Goof-ball Island. Now from the very beginning, you see Joy trying her hardest to keep Sadness away from the control desk as well as the orbs. I didn’t really like this, but it was for a reason. I mean who wants to see their person sad right? Joy was just looking out for Riley. While the other emotions weren’t paying attention to Sadness, she went and touched an orb. The orb was originally Gold in color to reflect Joy, yet when Sadness touched it it turned Blue.


All of a sudden, Riley, who was recalling something happy suddenly saw this memory sad.  This of course  happens at the worst time ever, because she is standing in front of the class talking about the recent move.


Joy tried to turn it back gold, but it remained blue. This is one of those times when you realize that it has a deeper meaning. Sometimes, when you reflect on happy times, it makes you sad. Sad that those times are over, those people are gone, the fact that those moments won’t happen again. It makes since that it turned blue and wouldn’t turn back. There was something else that Sadness said about wanting to, or feeling like she should touch it.. As if Riley was already slightly thinking it was sad, but needed the actual Sadness to turn it sad. Does that make sense?

Anyway, the movie goes on to show the family moving to California. The house isn’t really a house, and their furniture is lost in Texas. So you can imagine that Joy had plenty of work to do. Eventually, the mom came in to tell Riley that it was wonderful how happy she was staying. That her parents really needed her to stay that happy little girl.


That’s putting a lot onto a child. But this inspires Joy to keep working. Of course things just can’t happen like that though! While trying to stop Sadness from turning a Core Memory sad, Joy and Sadness both wind up lost in the inner workings of Riley’s mind.

Unfortunately for Riley, this means that Anger, Fear, and Disgust have to take over. She gets in a fight with her parents over many things. And eventually the three emotions come up with an idea to run away back to Minnesota. After all, that is where Riley is happy, so go back and she is happy again right?


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Because she had ruined all her islands, Riley looses everything that made her, her. And because of that the desk starts to loose it’s power. Meaning that no matter what the emotions did, they couldn’t make Riley do anything, which means that Riley couldn’t feel anything.

Joy of all people realize that she has to be sad in order go go home. My mom didn’t seem to understand this part. Why does being sad make you want to go back home? If Joy were able to take control, Riley would have been happy about running away. But because Sadness took over, Riley was sad about leaving her family, so she changes her mind and runs back home.

Then, Sadness has Riley tell her parents about how she has been feeling. “Please don’t be upset with me.” “You want me to be happy.” Riley started recalling those Core Memories, but only after Sadness turned them all blue. This is very deep, for a children’s movie. The past hurts. Sometimes it hurts the longer it’s been, and having Riley say all those things really meant a lot to the whole plot.

Her parent end up hugging her, and comforting her. Sadness then grabs Joy’s hand and puts it on the controller too. So now there is a happy-sad moment happening. A memory orb comes down and it is two-toned.


This scene meant so much. It wasn’t about letting kids know they can talk to their parents, it wasn’t about trying to make people ‘feel’ something, it was to let everyone know that it is okay to be sad. It is okay to show people that you aren’t okay. Now I realize that I didn’t explain everything in full and complete break-down mode from the movie, but if you haven’t seen it please go, and you will understand. But having a movie like this, with this kind of meaning is a big deal.

There is a feeling in today’s culture that effects so many people. Sadness. Pain. Hurt. Feelings that we are told, influenced, to keep hidden. Smile through the pain, pick yourself up again, don’t let others see you hurt. Why? Why has everyone become so afraid of being human? We all have emotions that effect us, maybe they aren’t as creative as the colorful egos in Riley’s head, but we all still have them. To pretend that everything is okay, when it clearly is not, is something that no one should have to do.


I believe that the point of this movie is to let people know that it is okay. It’s okay to be sad, to ask for help, to let people know that you are not okay. If this had come out 4 years ago I would probably be a different person, but as it is, here we are. Being sad isn’t something to be ashamed of. You shouldn’t have to hide that part of you. If you are sad, let it out in a healthy manor. Let people know, don’t be afraid of opening up to other people. You shouldn’t have to be left alone with your feelings of self worthlessness.

This is a movie with deeper meanings that I will dwell upon, and probably extend on this review when it comes out on DVD. I wouldn’t call it a kid’s movie. I don’t think that they would understand these thoughts. This is definitely something that I would highly recommend for middle school and high school students. Plus there is a wonderful explanation of cats at the end of the movie. 🙂

Rings of Akhaten

I cannot believe how many people do not like the Rings of Akhaten. It is one of my favorite episodes! Not only does it have amazing imagery, but it tells a wonderful story. The fact that people think it is lame have me wondering what others are watching.

People complain about the different aliens and how they weren’t necessary. He was showing her the wonder of this place that he loved. They might not have been top-notch, but guess what? It’s Doctor Who, have you seen the original Cybermen? Now the whole interaction with the dog thing… Fair enough. I didn’t really care for that either.

Another thing complained about is stupidity of things running off memories. If you have an issue with abstract thought you are watching the wrong show. Of course they are going to use a different type of currency, of course we wont understand it, of course you should shut-it. 🙂

Now let’s get to the meat of the episode. The speeches. There are some people who hate the speeches. I personally love them. I am a huge fan of words. When they are used correctly, and you have an amazing actor, and a character who melts your heart, you are in for a treat.

So when this little girl wanted to give her life for a cowardly god who gorged on people’s memories, The Doctor wouldn’t have it.


And delivered a small, but wonderful speech to her to convince her that her life meant more than a meal. Personally, this speech meant a lot to me. Not only does it give you hope, it also gives a standpoint of thought. To understand that if even one thing went differently, you wouldn’t be the person you are.  Considering he was speaking to a child, and the show was written with children in mind, it is a wonderful way at looking at your life.


This speech is easily forgotten, but I think that it is incredibly well written and deserves more credit. This little girl is supposed to know every song, yet he starts it off with “one you might not have heard”. “There will never be another you.” Considering the fact that she was going to basically commit suicide, but this speech made her reconsider, I think that it was well done.


Then we have this beauty. Many people agree that this was a good speech. I wouldn’t though. This speech is so much more than ‘good’. It conveys so much emotion. However, if Matt Smith hadn’t acted it in such an amazing way, it wouldn’t have meant nearly as much. He took words and created a feeling. He took a script and created something that wasn’t predicted. This wasn’t just about him, it was about every one he has been with for any amount of time. awesome

Matt Smith took parts that weren’t even his and responded as if it were. That is what I find amazing about this speech. There might be a new face, a new personality, a new accent, but there are always the same memories. He will always remember, and treasure those people. It is something wonderful, but so sad.

But then there is this part right after the speech. Where he seems completely drained.

I love this part. He is so strong, he has seen so much. No, he doesn’t forget it all, but it isn’t often that he thinks of every moment all at once. He has hundreds of years of memories, and knowing him they are pretty intense memories. The god took all those, and by doing that awakened every memory. In every way, this truly did drain him. I have had times where such a strong feeling of sadness overcomes me that I just fall to the ground. And that was from only one memory. To have as many as he… I can’t imagine. And yet that wasn’t enough.

Thus we arrive at another part that people don’t like. The fact that a silly leaf stops something that even the Doctor’s memories didn’t.


Some say that they don’t like it because the writers tried too hard to make her character strong, or keep her important. I don’t agree. Once more, this is an abstract way of thinking. Sure The Doctor had hundreds of years full of memories that he gave to the god. Yet, you remember the speech he gave to the little girl? About being unique in the world? All those things that that came together to create just one person… What if one thing didn’t go according to plan? That is what this represents. All those what-if’s and could-have-been’s. That silly leaf represents so much more than memories. They are stories of what could have been. To wonder what could be different in her life, all the memories that could have been. That is infinite.


I added this one with her little speech. I just think that it is such a wonderful way at looking at things. I cannot begin to imagine loosing my parents in this way. Everything that we have done, everything we plan to do, what if we never could? I legitimately cannot imagine loosing the thing that made it all happen. The leaf. I mean what if it was sunny that day and her parents never met? To say that the leaf was stupid is seriously… well, stupid!

There are limitless ideas, stories, dreams, and hopes that never got to be lived. And that is a lot more than a memory. Not that any memory isn’t amazing. It is just knowing that something could have happened, but it didn’t. I cannot say enough how much that is meaningful.

If someone out there still doesn’t like this episode, than I can’t help that. But, I love this episode.

Why I’m here

This is pretty much for myself. If others find they want to join in, please feel free. I completely enjoy taking apart a character from a film or show, and finding out why they said or did a certain thing. Basically character analysis. I’m not a professional, clearly, but I have passion for these types of things.

This is the place I will go to analyze freely and if others would like to join in and voice their opinions, I would thoroughly enjoy that!

I mainly enjoy Doctor Who and Sherlock. However, anytime I see a new movie or anything I will probably do that as well. mine